All that it takes

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We’re back after our holiday and so far I’m managing to stave off the post holiday blues. It might be different when I walk back into the office tomorrow morning but until then I’m still on holiday so I’m not letting work thoughts enter my head.

The break was fantastic. Hubby and I definitely needed this time away to regroup and to remember that there are lots of good things in our lives even if it can feel a little overwhelming at times. The Fall colours were looking way better than we were expecting as we’d thought we were a bit early but everything was looking fabulous and we seemed to divide our time between photography walks, scrumptious dinners and swimming in beautiful pools. I also managed to get hubby on a horse which was very amusing.

We hardly spoke about trying to conceive while we were away and although we were at it like bunnies for most of the time, it felt like we were honeymooners again and not a tired frustrated couple timing intercourse to ovulation. If having lots of sex is all that it takes to make a baby then we should be a shoe in this month! I’ve been around enough to know that there is a whole lotta luck needed too so fingers crossed Lady Luck will also be on our side.

The holiday did bring up one issue which has been on my mind for a while but I decided not to discuss it with the boy – alcohol. The boy and I like a drink. We’re not heavy drinkers but enjoy a glass of wine with dinner and I’ve been struggling with how this fits with trying to conceive. I don’t drink when I know (or think that I might be) pregnant but I do still indulge in a glass of wine or two during the two week wait. I know that in a perfect world I wouldn’t do this and would turn my body into a baby making temple but I can’t help but feel that 9 months of pregnancy plus months of breast feeding is going to be long enough to be a t-totaller without adding months (and possibly years) onto the beginning. So far it doesn’t seem like having a few occasional drinks has stopped me from conceiving as my first two pregnancies were fairly quick (although the first time took 5 months which felt like forever but I know that its actually pretty average). This leaves me wondering if having a couple of glasses of wine during my two week wait contributed to miscarriages but my doctor has said it wouldn’t be related.

So I guess what I’m left pondering is (i) should I stop doing something I enjoy to increase my chances of a successful pregnancy? (ii) Would it actually increase my chances at all as I’m not exactly a binge drinker? (iii) Does the fact that I’m asking myself these questions mean that I’m not a hundred percent committed to having a baby otherwise I’d be prepared to walk to the ends of the earth to achieve my goal and giving up a glass of wine with dinner would be a no brainer?

Off to Boston (and hopefully making a baby)

Three months ago having just come home from the hospital after my second D&C, the boy and I decided we needed some good news and something to look forward to so on a whim we booked a holiday. And it’s finally arrived!

We’re off to Boston in the morning for a well earned holiday and possibly some stress free, actually romantic for a change, baby making. Who knows if we’ll be lucky enough to fall pregnant this cycle but the dates are in our favour and the hotel looks lush so it will be really nice to try without feeling like we’re actually trying!

Stay safe in blog world. I look forward to catching up on all of your posts when I get back.

*waves*